Spirituality is the art of transfiguration.  We should not force ourselves to change by hammering our lives into any predetermined shape.  We do not need to operate according to the idea of a predetermined program or plan for our lives.  Rather, we need to practice a new art of attention to the inner rhythm of our days and lives.  This attention brings a new awareness of our own human and divine presence.

If you attend to yourself and seek to come into your presence, you will find exactly the right rhythm for your own life.

Your soul knows the geography of your destiny.

John O’Donohue

Anam Cara, A Book of Celtic Wisdom